Joy...love the way you present your vids; relaxing w/down to earth lingo such as "don't jive with".
Sometimes jive is the only word that works for relating or not relating 2 things. Just a fun familar word ya don't hear much anymore.
Anyway, Janet does not say when Interventions took place & could have taken place after the Pepsi fire. I don't think Janet can lie. It's just not her. As far as the black; that she's not wearing black could be a deliberate clue to say well, he's not really dead so - - - or she wears black under-garments or she changed her mind.
As per Joe, I think his coldness is deliberate. He wants to appear so, as a distraction, for he is protecting his son. I don't think he cares what people think of him anymore & probably gets a kick out of succeeding in everyone thinking he's so awful. Everyone bashes Joe. He's simply going along with it for Michael. The two love one-another, for sure.