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Well, I am not perfect, Sinderella. You have your right to tantrum upon what I told you. However, my comment to you does not make your post right or the truth in general terms.Seriously,how dare you tell me my opinion on how I view my experiences are not right or true.Who are you to judge what is right?You talk about complaints about me, but you have been a mod since?
My posts on this forum (or the other) are way too many since 2009 for you to judge me as "causing an issue/argument over absolutley nothing".
Seriously,how dare you tell me my opinion on how I view my experiences are not right or true.Who are you to judge what is right?
Doesn't matter when I have been a mod since,it matters that the complaints were for the reasons I set out in my reply to you.
That makes you a hypocrite
Sinderella I wasn't having a dig at the mods or anyone else, I was actually trying to lighten the tone, as it was going downhill again, whereas earlier there seemed to be a bit of progress and the negativity between certain members seemed to be diminishing. I have the utmost respect for the mods/admins on here, it can't be easy keeping us lot in line. Maybe this thread isn't the right place for playful banter though, point taken.
"PureLove" I uderstand that to write a post like that has been a big step for you. It is appreciated, and very positive to say that you are upset and the reasons why you are without using personal remarks.Your post I take as an attemp to move on and let the monsters of the past where it belongs It is very interesting to read this parts of your post, specially the bolded parts:QuoteI received many PMs about you and RFYL and people told me that you were annoying them, especially your conversation with SV.QuoteI'm saying this because not everyone want to tell it directly to people's face QuoteBUT I'm not someone like thatAs you noticed by now I do not appreciate negative PM´s about anybody and I don´t get influenced by what others think or decide. I will never stop talking to SV or anyone just because someone decides so.This is the "how come" I was defensive when you approached members of the board the way you did labeling them too quick I am happy to know that cooperation can work.No hard feelings.
I received many PMs about you and RFYL and people told me that you were annoying them, especially your conversation with SV.
I'm saying this because not everyone want to tell it directly to people's face
BUT I'm not someone like that
Guys, I want to share something with all of you. My dad is cancer and he is having radiotheraphy. He didn't want me to go with him to his theraphy sessions because he knows how sensitive I am and he didn't want me to see all those people with cancer who are getting chemotherapy and radiotheraphy. But today I insisted to go with him. I saw many little kids, young people, old people with cancer there. Probably most of them are dying. I saw a little girl passing just in front of me. She was holding a toy bunny. She came and sit next to me with her mom as they were waiting for their session time to come. I asked her name and her bunny's name. She told me their names. We played together a little. Her mom told me that she has leukemia and she's having hard times with the medication and chemotheraphy. When their time came to go for the session they stood up and left the room. With her bald head, pale skin, she smiled back at me when I smiled her. She turned back and waved at me. Many people came and left the room today and most of them were very sick.I saw death in that room today. The one we do not know when it is going to come and knock the door. Today we are healthy and in a good condition but we do not know what's going to happen in a day or even just in a second. We always say that this life is too short, we should live the moment but I think for a real understanding, the truth needs to slap your face and that happened to me today. When my dad came out of his session and found me in tears, he felt bad and told me "I told you not to come with me. I knew you were going to feel terrible and cry". But he was surprised when I thanked him for giving me the chance of going there and to see the truth. The truth is, life is too short to feel bad and make others feel bad. It is too short to break others' hearts and allow others to break your heart. This is such a very short journey my friends. And we really need to enjoy every moment of it.Now on, I'll be going to hospital more often. I know that it is going to be so hard for me to see those very sick people, especially the kids but I will try to hold on and give my best to those kids. Even if I can give a little smile to their faces, that would be such a huge happiness for me.I hope you all understand why I wrote this here today. Our strongest power is love. As much as we love, as much as we get bigger and we shine. Yes, we shine. That is the magic of love and like Michael says; LOVE LIVES FOREVER! And I Love You All.