Quote from: diggyon on December 26, 2012, 03:58:37 AMGina
QuoteSo yeah, I totally agree, I wish people would dig more into the real MJ, speculate about that if we have to speculate anyway.
Now let me stop here for a while......
When I first came to the forum back in 2009 I was totally astonished because on the forum I found that almost every one knew every single detail about Michael Jackson's private life!! I always believed the lies about him and never cared to hear otherwise. Plus, where I come from MJ's news aren't the main headlines of the our national newspapers. One can hardly find any news about him in our media. Even his songs are only played on special radio stations that are not broad casted in my native language! All I wanna say is I didn't know anything about this artist at all! I know it's hard to believe but that was the case with me. I only followed the news of his death out of curiosity! I just felt that there was something fishy about the whole thing......... As I said, I discovered that almost everyone knew every single detail about MJ: the size of his shoes, how tall he is, how much he weighs, how many times he got married, his children, (biological or not), his other unknown son, what he likes most, every single song he sang, his friends, his habits, the way he talks, etc..... (I bet most of you know these things for s u r e ). Then I asked myself one question: does Michael Jackson want it really that way? Does he really want everyone of his fans (who must be billions by now) to know every single detail about his life? Does he want his way of living, his family quarrels (if there are some...) exposed to the people around the globe? Are we here to talk about his life and dig even more to find more suff we haven't discovered before? How would anyone of us feel if he/ she finds out that one of his/ her friends knows only a little about his/ her private life (marriage, private habits etc.....)? I really don't want to go into much details here but I would be the first one to jump out of the window if I found out that my life is exposed to the public! Michael Jackson has no secrets!!!!! All the fans know all of them!!!!! How can someone live this way? I personally can't! And again, through investigation we ought to know the man!!! More private details exposed! I must admit that I sometimes feel ashamed when people talk about the trials and his body examinations and stuff! It's really hard for me to follow up sometimes! I know that Souza and the mods are doing their best to prevent a deeper digging in MJ's life. But still.... so much has been exposed already! It's the price of fame i guess! I still ask my self the same question every now and then: does Michael really want us to know so much about him, his life and his family?? He has been so close to us in the past 3 years, we shared laughters and sadness together, he is among us through the usernames he uses on this forum to communicate directly with us, to come closer to a bunch of believers the way he never did before in his whole life! My question remains unanswered! Does Michael Jackson really want us to know so much about him!!!!
Personally I think he does not, but because he's a mega star and one of the greatest entertainers known to man!, he gets no privacy.
Remember we are all online, so anything we find is based online unless some of us on here go full on detective and go to Neverland and visited his family and stuff. So it's not like we go out of our way to hop over a fence to find evidence. Or if someone on here knows Michael, but that's the only way we're getting evidence.
Never the less, I think personally some of us forget the Michael is a human being and though he was a genius; music and knowledge wise, he was not the smartest person in the world. So sharing "evidence" that is really nothing, but they turn it into something outrageous. No offense to anyone, but some of the things that you've guys have said is really out there and even Michael probably wouldn't of thought of that.
He lived life simple as best as he could, but also knew when to put his brain at work and when to use it if he needed too. So no I don't think Michael wanted us to know so much, but because he was a mega star he either had no privacy because the media, his fans, his enemies, and HIMSELF. How? Because he had to explain himself more than he really needed to. I think this began after the first allegation of molestation. You can tell that Michael was explaining himself more than usual, so his image wouldn't suffer, but it did.
He was just emotionally drained and who won't be after having people know your every move. Part of being human is having that boundary of keeping things just for you to know (sex life, attractions, other's secrets, guilty pleasures, etc) and the world did everything in their power to not only go over the boundary of public and private, but go over the boundary of expectations.
His fans treated him like a god. His enemies and haters treated him like a demon. (Which is why I think Michael loved kids and animals so much. They don't want anything from you. They treat you like anyone else and just want to have fun.)
I don't know where I'm going with this, but yeah. I just think we expect to much from him even to this day. We should all just chill out and let it happen, stop trying to predict dates and stalk Paris Jackson hoping she gives another "clue" and I use that loosely because she's a teenager and so am I and I don't think she's trying to tell us something with her tweets, at least not lately. Most teen girls tweet about liking this or that song.
Ok, yeah I'm done haha sorry my little stupid rant. :icon_e_confused: I tried to edit this the best I could to make it formal, but I most likely made a mistake somewhere. Sorry :confused: