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You are not allowed to view links. Register or LoginRespectfully, I think it is a mistake to love unconditionally. Conditions are like boundaries and healthy boundaries are necessary in any positive relationship for a nurturing sense of respect for self. My love has value. I do not give it to anyone who does not respect me as a human being with thoughts, desires, hopes, and dreams. I believe women, in particular, really need to have a sense of good boundaries to prevent them from feeling used and disrespected, worthless and unworthy.We give so much of ourselves in relationships with our loved ones, naturally, as women, that it is imperative that we not forget to love and respect ourselves first and foremost.All this talk about love... don't forget to keep it real, lest we set unrealistic goals and the spend lifetimes becoming self destructive and self depreciating chasing the unattainable.Please take time out to be good to yourself, girls. Your body, including your psyche and spirituality, self, YOU, IS your temple. Stand up for your feelings, good or bad, do not repress them.To love unconditionally presumes YOU to be BETTER than the one who doesn't treat you right, with love, respect... For if you only love because you are loved you are no better than they, but you ONLY exchange feelings.Michael loves Jesus because of this too: “If you love those who love you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who do good to you, what benefit is that to you? For even sinners do the same. And if you lend to those from whom you expect to receive, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, to get back the same amount.”
Respectfully, I think it is a mistake to love unconditionally. Conditions are like boundaries and healthy boundaries are necessary in any positive relationship for a nurturing sense of respect for self. My love has value. I do not give it to anyone who does not respect me as a human being with thoughts, desires, hopes, and dreams. I believe women, in particular, really need to have a sense of good boundaries to prevent them from feeling used and disrespected, worthless and unworthy.We give so much of ourselves in relationships with our loved ones, naturally, as women, that it is imperative that we not forget to love and respect ourselves first and foremost.All this talk about love... don't forget to keep it real, lest we set unrealistic goals and the spend lifetimes becoming self destructive and self depreciating chasing the unattainable.Please take time out to be good to yourself, girls. Your body, including your psyche and spirituality, self, YOU, IS your temple. Stand up for your feelings, good or bad, do not repress them.
6For when we were yet without strength, in due time Christ died for the ungodly. 7For scarcely for a righteous man will one die: yet peradventure for a good man some would even dare to die... 12Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:... 17For if by one man's offence death reigned by one; much more they which receive abundance of grace and of the gift of righteousness shall reign in life by one, Jesus Christ.) 18Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life. 19For as by one man's disobedience many were made sinners, so by the obedience of one shall many be made righteous.
If……. if we pour a cup of kiss and one ounce of blisscan we reverse the poisonous concoction? if we dare to hope in a world filled with shattered dreamscan we heal the wounds that bleed from the shards? if we love unconditionally in a world filled with hatecan we cure the diseased heartsbefore it's too late?if we shine the scope of our lightin times of darknesscan we make the blind see again?if we shelter them from the ice cold raincan we melt their frostbitten tearsand liquify their pain?let their cup runneth over spilling their fearsinto the gutter of the darkest yearsa runoff of ruin and wasteif we gently wipe the dirt off their faceand cleanse their souls of a mortal race can we slow the madness to this hasteof chaos that humankind embrace? do not ask "if?" but "how?"do not say "tomorrow" but "now"the answer is: yes we cando it now, here we standjoining hands across the Promised Land
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When talking about the big subject of love one needs to expand one's thoughts further than the love in (sometimes difficult) personal relationships, to the love one can have for mankind in general.To me, love is wanting the best for others (and myself) and not wanting to harm them (or myself). This isn't a wishy washy 'you can do whatever you like to me, walk all over me and I won't complain' sort of attitude. It's more a case of 'if you treat me badly, I may well distance myself from you for my own good, I will want to see you justly punished if the circumstances warrant that, but above all I will hope for you to see the error of your ways and make appropriate changes. I will not call for you to rot in hell!'This can be applied to any person or situation, whether it's a personal relationship or a 'wider world' situation.What, if anything, one can or should, actually DO to lovingly improve another person/situation is a whole other subject - but what I've just talked about is the heart of how I believe love can be shown in difficult circumstances.
You are not allowed to view links. Register or LoginWhen talking about the big subject of love one needs to expand one's thoughts further than the love in (sometimes difficult) personal relationships, to the love one can have for mankind in general.To me, love is wanting the best for others (and myself) and not wanting to harm them (or myself). This isn't a wishy washy 'you can do whatever you like to me, walk all over me and I won't complain' sort of attitude. It's more a case of 'if you treat me badly, I may well distance myself from you for my own good, I will want to see you justly punished if the circumstances warrant that, but above all I will hope for you to see the error of your ways and make appropriate changes. I will not call for you to rot in hell!'This can be applied to any person or situation, whether it's a personal relationship or a 'wider world' situation.What, if anything, one can or should, actually DO to lovingly improve another person/situation is a whole other subject - but what I've just talked about is the heart of how I believe love can be shown in difficult circumstances.You are so right, but due to everyones personal experience, it's more or less difficult to see the bigger picture. I always was (and am) someone who cares much for the wolrd and mankind and I trusted everyone (just as a child), but I had to learn the hard way, that this behaviour is dangerous sometimes. It doesn't stop me from "doing good" in general and I don't carry hate in my heart. I'm just careful.Love doesn't require the loss of mind... think while you love... with all your heart.
Veronicafall you might be right, but from my experience I can tell you that there are ppl that can't be loved unconditional, because they take EVERYTHING away from you in the name of love. And when they leave you're nothing - only an empty shell with NO content. So to love "unconditional" you have to be careful - just like Bec said...
you know what though imo there is no one here who is not capable of understanding that the world needs our love. could it be that the real problem comes when government tries to or is expected to step in and take our place . to become the great equalizer. to sow the seeds we should be sowing ourselves. we all know it isn't working and is most probably making things worse. guess you could say that very system is anti-christ jmo he did ask us to do it ourselves didn't he? if it was supposed to be done by force wouldn't he have let peter cut off the soldiers other ear and more? just a thought
You are not allowed to view links. Register or LoginVeronicafall you might be right, but from my experience I can tell you that there are ppl that can't be loved unconditional, because they take EVERYTHING away from you in the name of love. And when they leave you're nothing - only an empty shell with NO content. So to love "unconditional" you have to be careful - just like Bec said... Hopi, to love unconditionally doesn't mean you must be the guinea pig or accomplice to the one who's trying to harm you. It's more like you rise above the situation and REALLY understand WHY the other one is doing what he's doing. Turning your love into hate for that man is not a solution for yourself, your health, your balance. It's not the solution FOR YOU first of all. If that love hurts, you should walk out that very moment, not when you already get to the point when all you can do is to hate. If this happens, whose fault is that really?! Before the actual hate there are many signals that tell you: "hate may be on its way, do something, make a choice!".As someone said here before: a person who is loved since their birth, they don't end up harming others.Criminals, violent men/ women with their lovers, thieves, etc. are the result of the whole society, not just their families.Wanna heal the world (Michael's dream)? You gotta come with even more LOVE where there is hate/ illness. This is real challenge for me too . Can I/ Will I succeed?
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