If we depend on others to confirm our beliefs, we will go insane. Nobody will ever be able to confirm our beliefs whatever it may be - 100%. The fact that people can't decide which way to go as far as beliefs - proves that their scale that measures their own decision making tools are not up to par. Beliefs are based on emotions. When you need to believe in something, your mind/brain has a way of going in that direction. People often caught in the moment of emergency - find that they are powerful, strong, and faster than they ever knew themselves to be. The mind can turn you into a sprint runner, it can enable you to carry someone 100 pounds and run for help - it can enable you to fight off an attacker in a way that can save your life - it can enable you to do anything, in the case of need. Your mind is a strong tool - but it is also a very vulnerable one. If you don't know what you want to be doing every day - how you want your life to go - influences around you will easily control what you think and feel. And remember, opinions and points of view are merely that - they are not booklets of proof that you can scientifically measure and show how it works. If you believe one way - then just take it for what it is, it's just your own pov. You don't need to prove anything to anyone. That way, whenever you read something else that wants to convince you into another direction, you just take it with a grain of salt and see it as just another opinion. But you have your own opinion and belief. Don't sway away from it.