The Official Negativity Thread - Whine, Cry And Rant In Here

[blankie]

Thanks everyone.. I've lost some pets before her, but I've had her for 12 years, it's so hard to lose a pet that's always been there.  :icon_e_sad:

Thanks for the support, it means so much.

You have a sweet heart and a sweet soul.... :bearhug: L.O.V.E. you  :bearhug:

[MaryK]

MJFAN7, I am so sorry for your loss dear.

I don´t know if adopting a new dog is an option for your family but I found this and I think the message is important.

Always remember the good times you had with your dog and the love you shared.

[sandythyme]

How do you cope with the loss of your dog?  :icon_cry:

Hi MJFAN7, I am so sorry about the loss of your dog.  I understand so well how you are feeling.  I lost both my dogs within  a few of years of each other.  It crushes you, especially when they are a part of your everyday life, they know when you are sad, they know when you are happy.  Think of all the special thymes you had with your doggie.  Remember memories and love lasts forever.  I truely believe when we lose these precious little 4 legged babies that they watch over us forever until someday we will met again.  That's  how I cope with the lost.  I don't have children, so my doggies were and are a huge part of my life.  Time does heal.  Take care and remember the happy thymes you shared together.   :bearhug:

[everlastinglove_MJ]

Hi MJFAN7, i'm sorry for the loss of your dog. I hope you have friends and family to talk to about your grief.
Take care and i hope you feel better soon  :bearhug:

[paula-c]

Thanks everyone.. I've lost some pets before her, but I've had her for 12 years, it's so hard to lose a pet that's always been there.  :icon_e_sad:

Thanks for the support, it means so much.

It is true, I had a dog for 16 years and when he died he left a great void, it feels like a family member died or a great friend. :bearhug:

[Love4Michael]

MJFAN7, I am so sorry for your loss dear.

I don´t know if adopting a new dog is an option for your family but I found this and I think the message is important.

Always remember the good times you had with your dog and the love you shared.

Wow MaryK...reading that actually brought tears to my eyes.  I'm such a marshmallow sometimes...lol.

 MJFAN7...mere words can never really fix things  :icon_cry: but I'm sending warm thoughts your way.  12 years is a whole lot of love shared...find comfort in knowing that you meant the world to her most likely too. 

[sweetsunsetwithMJ]

I am sorry to hear that your dog is gone MJFAN7 it must be very painful I can imagine because although I have never had any pet I love them and  I front time to time help with some donations to certain pets shelters.

[MissG]

 Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

[Thémis]

How do you cope with the loss of your dog?  :icon_cry:

I am sorry for the lost of your dog, I share your pain.  It's always hard to lost a pet friend, I cry alot each time I lost one.

Thémis   :bearhug:

[RK]

Oh MJFAN...I am sorry about your lovely friend passing. The grief we feel upon losing a pet is no different than when we lose a family member. It hurts like crazy and is hard. Especially losing your dog that has been your companion while you were growing up. It is one of the hardest things in life that dogs don't live as long as we do, and getting to my age, I have lost quite a few dogs in those 50+ years. Every loss hurt like hell and the grief would wash across me like the waves, coming and going in intensity. Down the road a little way, at a time when you are probably not expecting it to happen, another dog will come into your life. This dog will never replace your pet that has passed away, but you will love it for it's unique nature anyhow. Just like a parent loves all their children, even though they are all individuals and different. MJFAN, you have a lot of love to give. I pray that you will pass through this period of loss, and upon finding yourself coming through the other side of grief, will also find yourself ready to accept another needy dog into your life and heart. God bless you sweetheart.  :bearhug:

[ShyBleuEyes]

 :icon_cry:i know and feel what you are going through  Mj fan, it make me feel sad to see you have lost your friend.
I had my dog put to sleep after 17 years, i felt like i betrayed him....

It's the unconditional love they have for you , that's one of the things that make them very special.

 :bearhug:

[Thémis]

MJFAN7, I am so sorry for your loss dear.

I don´t know if adopting a new dog is an option for your family but I found this and I think the message is important.

Always remember the good times you had with your dog and the love you shared.

Wow MaryK...reading that actually brought tears to my eyes.  I'm such a marshmallow sometimes...lol.

 MJFAN7...mere words can never really fix things  :icon_cry: but I'm sending warm thoughts your way.  12 years is a whole lot of love shared...find comfort in knowing that you meant the world to her most likely too. 

The poem is so beautiful, it made me cry, but it's so true.

[Thémis]

Rainbow Bridge

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.

There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

Very beautiful poem, it helped me alot to read it two years ago when my dwarf rabbit is dead. A friend (I lost track) sent this to me, and  I do the samething when someone I know lost their pet friends.

I am sure one day I will go across the rainbow bridge, where my true friends are.

Thémis
 

[katy (MJFAN7)]

Thanks everyone.. we were trying to wait it out but we have to take her tomorrow to get put down  :icon_cry:

The past week she's just been suffering, she's depressed, she wont eat and barely drinks, we try to get her out for walks about 5 times a day but lately she hasn't even wanted to go, so it's a good thing that we are doing this but it's really hard. You all have helped me so much though, really. From the poems to the words. thank

[mindseye]

MJFAN7 So sad, sorry for your loss.

 :bearhug: